Today was a tough day at work. One of those days that the answer to all the questions seems to be the middle finger. You know which one.
After work i dragged my tired body to the local market. I was standing in the line, at the well-known grumpy cashier lady, waiting for my turn and digging in my huge bag in search of my wallet. (Women know exactly what i am talking about) When i heard it: “Goodmorning!”
♠ Shocking! ♠
I looked up flabbergasted. The cashier lady had just hello-ed me!!!
Now you ‘ll tell me “so what’s the big deal?” Let me explain myself, i believe in smiling. I don’t just say that, i actually live that way, i need to have a positive environment. If that is not happening, i try to make it happen, put some light and color in it. Most of the time i achieve that by doing silly things, and having a positive attitude against grumpy people.
In the city i currently live there is one thing i complain about all the time: People. They are always so serious and stiff! I always say “hello” when entering, lets say the gym, and that “hello” always comes with a smile. And you know what, i want to see a smile back! Well, local people are seriously testing my nerves…! And nope, i am not gonna quit cause that is what i do.
So now you understand my surprise.
The lady i have been seeing almost every day for the last 5 years gave me the “hello” smile! Of course my smile back at her was beyond satisfaction! I even wanted to reach and hug her, ask her how her day was, but then i decided i shouldn’t take matters so far…
On my way home i couldn’t stop thinking….
Oh my God, i trained the grumpy super market lady!!!!
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Be honest now,
don’t you just hate it when people don’t “hello” you back?
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P.S. This post was written about a year ago. I don’t know why, but I wanted to clear this…
That makes two of us!!! I know exactly what you mean and BRAVO, my dear. I once trained a very very grumpy old man. Now he smiles before I even look at him! We are the smile delegates!!!! Love your happy chimp! 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 [for a smile OD!]
[half an hour later!] I was thinking that getting a grumpy super market lady trained deserves lots of extra credits as it is mere impossible!!!!! [I know!]
Hahahaha! You really get what I mean! 😀 Congratulations to you too Marina, we can fight grumpiness tohether!
Very nice! A good example of making the world a better place one person at a time. Now, if this experiment can be repeated a few billion times… 🙂
We could all agree to “infect” a certain region, then a country and then the world! Lets eliminate grumpiness MUAHAHA! 😛
They do say that smiling is contagious. If you smile at someone they can’t help but to smile back at you. Ioanna I am smiling as I read this blog post! It is so positive and inspiring.
Well done to you (and the newly trained cashier).
It took lots of time to “infect” this one! If I ever see her in an amazingly happy mood, I could even tell her I turned her into a blog post…! (odds are she wouldn’t ever talk to me again!)
Hehehe. I’m so happy for that cashier lady. She must have really got out of bed on the right side that morning. 🙂
You are so right! I guess she must have had a very nice day (or night!) 😛
Hehehe 😉
That DOES bother me. Funny. I just read this today: “make yourself so happy that others get happy just looking at you”. I thought, “this is going to be my new mantra.”
Hey you! Yeah, you!! I WILL make you smile. 😉
Congrats on your accomplishment, ioanna. Not always an easy feat.
I hate it when I am all bubbly and smily and people won’t even return my hello, it makes me want to slap them on the face! But negative energy won’t get to us, it’s gonna be the other way around, lets make the world a better place Gemma! 😀
I am so with you on that! 🙂
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Please accept the “The Dragon’s Loyalty Award”
I SAID NICE THINGS ABOUT YOU HERE, WITH THE EASY RULES:
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haha, my first award ever.
and now im nominating you
Awwww congratulations on the award swan, lots more will come! Thank you so much for thinking of me! 🙂
of coure, the first person on blog wordpress who i ever sent card to….hehe
Yes! My Christmas card! 😀 Lets do that this year too, I love it!
yesss….hehe….
email me back the address…i misplaced it babe….wnurulh@gmail.com
il give u my skype id/address again…in email
Here it comes! 😀